(Update from Mabel)
Surrounded by Van, her family and close friends, Michelle left us this morning at 2:08am.
Despite the tightness in her chest and difficulty breathing, Michelle still cracked jokes and put smiles on our faces until the very end. Always putting others before herself, her final wish was for us to love and care for one another. After so many setbacks and so much pain, she was finally able to close her eyes and find the relief that she could never attain during the past two years.
Words can’t express how proud we are of Michelle and all that she has accomplished during her short lifetime. She fought so hard—not just for herself, but for her family, friends and countless others who faced the same struggles. She shared her story candidly with the world in order to empower patients with more resources and to spread her message of hope.
Before her cough and infection became severe, we were fortunate enough to enjoy a weekend in Carmel with Michelle. The home we stayed at was beautifully secluded on a forested hill and provided us with amazing views of the Pacific coastline. We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect setting to share in laughter, memories and unspoken goodbyes.
Our good friend Hung created a slideshow of our Carmel getaway, which Michelle wanted us to share on the blog:
Thank you to everyone for your endless love and support.
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The Fremont Buddhist Thai Temple will be holding a special Buddhist prayer ceremony in honor of Michelle tomorrow, Sunday 7/26 at 7pm. Please feel free to attend:
Buddhanusorn Thai Temple
36054 Niles Blvd
Fremont, CA 94536-1563
The actual funeral proceedings will be held this coming Saturday 8/1 in San Jose. Details will be posted shortly.
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128 responses so far ↓
1 helen // Jul 25, 2009 at 6:35 pm
RIP Michelle. I will forever remember your strength, your smile, your battle. Hope you can finally find rest.
2 Michelle Slade // Jul 25, 2009 at 6:45 pm
Words cannot express. I am so, so sorry.. I never wanted to open this page and see those words.
Thank you for coming and letting us all know. The world has lost a truly amazing woman.
3 alice // Jul 25, 2009 at 7:09 pm
Sending waves of peace and comfort. I’m sorry. Thank you for sharing your story and helping others in the process with graciousness and generosity.
4 Heartbroken // Jul 25, 2009 at 7:10 pm
I’ve dreaded this post for so long. Mabel, you worded it perfectly in saying how proud everyone is of Michelle. She was a true angel and will never be forgotten. Never. Ever.
5 Stephany // Jul 25, 2009 at 7:10 pm
As a nurse practitioner in bone marrow transplant, a friend of Erica Murray’s, and a Cal Grad, I am so so so sad to hear this news. I yearn for the day when there is a cure for this disease, and I am out of a job. Love and prayers to your family.
6 Victoria // Jul 25, 2009 at 7:42 pm
Michelle, you are an inspiration. May you forever be at peace.
7 patricia rueda // Jul 25, 2009 at 8:38 pm
dear van my name is patricia i i know what you going throu i lost my husband jorge ochoa on may 14th you guys talk a few times last year on the phone mu hubby fight too a lot and always had a lot of faith and hope im sure there in a good place now looking after us hes giving me a lot of peace is hard i mis him a lot but hes in my heat michelle like jorge were worriers and im sure that from heaven there helping others i send you my love and you were a wonderfoul hubby and you will always have an angel by your side
8 Neta-lee // Jul 25, 2009 at 8:41 pm
RIP Michelle. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. What a blessing to world that she continues living through you!
9 Sarah in Pittsburgh // Jul 25, 2009 at 8:46 pm
I’ll remember Michelle even though I never met her. She amazed and inspired me. My deepest condolences to Van, Michelle’s parents and siblings, and her friends. A few hundred strangers are mourning with you.
10 A Fan // Jul 25, 2009 at 9:04 pm
May Michelle be with God forever. Om Shanti Om.
11 Diem Ly // Jul 25, 2009 at 9:12 pm
Please rest in peace Michelle. I love and admire you in equal measure. Even though we have never met, I will always, always remember you. My sincerest condolences to Michelle’s loved ones. And of course, thank you to you all…for everything.
12 Johnmichael // Jul 25, 2009 at 9:33 pm
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. She was a brave warrior and put up such an amazing fight. Her story will enable many more people to find the matches they need. She was a true hero.
13 Sherry G. // Jul 25, 2009 at 9:48 pm
Van and Michelle’s family,
I am deeply saddened to open the blog to find this news today. I have opened this blog every 2 days for over a year now reading updates and really didn’t think I would read this today. Being an AML survivor myself I have seen this disease take some beautiful people in this world. Michelle is one of them. Eventhough I never met her, I still cannot believe the impact the save michelle project has had on this world. When I was diagnosed I felt so alone and now, because of Michelle, so many don’t have to feel this way. So many will benefit from the thousands of people that were registered in the national registry. Her legacy will save the lives of others and hopefully will continue long into the future. She was truly a light and a gift to this world and patients everywhere. Every day the thought crosses my mind why I survived and why others were taken from us too soon…my sincerest and deepest sympathies… while my heart is saddened, I am grateful and honored to have known (via a blog)a strong, beautiful and remarkable woman.
14 Stephanie // Jul 25, 2009 at 9:49 pm
Crying afer finding sweet Michelle is gone. My heart goes out to her loving husband Van, her family, and all her friends. I have been following Michelle’s blog for a long time. I looked to her as an amazingly strong woman with a gift to touch so many people. I, as well as my husband and lots of friends have become part of the bone marrow registery because of her. Michelle has touched me so very much. I will always think of her and hold her memory in my heart. Her legacy that she has left is just amazing. RIP Michelle.
15 A fan // Jul 25, 2009 at 10:08 pm
Thank you Michelle for sharing your courage and incredible spirit with so many strangers. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. The world has lost a great soul, but her legacy will continue forever.
16 Grac // Jul 25, 2009 at 10:15 pm
My heart broke when I read this entry. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you who supported Michelle during this journey of life and endless love.
17 jella // Jul 25, 2009 at 10:35 pm
rip michelle. thank you for sharing your story. prayers to your family and friends <3
18 M T Le // Jul 25, 2009 at 11:10 pm
Our heartfelt goodbyes to Michelle & sincere sympathy
19 Anonymous // Jul 25, 2009 at 11:25 pm
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I understand your pain. I lost my dad April 27, 09 of Acute Monocytic Leukemia. I am praying for your family. May God bless you all.
20 that was an awesome video, i actually grew up in carmel. there is a huge hole in my heart. my grandpa died on june 15th just last year of AML. michelle is so inspiring and has and will CONTINUE to touch so many ppl. my heart, prayers, thoughts, and love // Jul 25, 2009 at 11:54 pm
that was an awesome video, i actually grew up in carmel. there is a huge hole in my heart. my grandpa died on june 15th just last year of AML. michelle is so inspiring and has and will CONTINUE to touch so many ppl. my heart, prayers, thoughts, and love go out to you.
21 Michelle // Jul 26, 2009 at 12:12 am
I’ve followed Michelle’s blog for quite some time. Her strength and determination inspired me so much I joined the bone marrow donor registry.
I never had the pleasure of meeting Michelle, but as I sit here, I cannot stop crying. I know that she is at peace, and I know that she is not suffering.
I just feel bad that all the things she hoped and desired for could not be fulfilled in this lifetime. Her desire to be a mom, to grow old with her sweet Van.
I am grateful that Michelle shared her story with us. I feel I have been blessed and inspired by this remarkable young woman.
My deepest sympathy to Van, Michelle’s family, and friends. You were all so fortunate to have had Michelle in your lives. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
22 Anonymous // Jul 26, 2009 at 1:26 am
Thank you for everything Michelle. You may not know, but you made a huge difference in my life. I promise to help others in your similar case. I wish you the best with everything. I wish your family and friends the strength to move past these rough times. Thank you for everything..
23 Jenny // Jul 26, 2009 at 1:29 am
Dear Van and Michelle’s family,
I am so, so sorry for your loss. After learning of Project Michelle, I joined the Bone Marrow Registry in hopes of saving her life. I didn’t know Michelle, but I feel as if I did through this blog. I am so sad she left this world, but there is now a sweet, sweet angel in heaven watching over us. I’ll miss you so much, Michelle.
Love,
Jenny
24 Amanda Manklang // Jul 26, 2009 at 2:05 am
Michelle, you have been such an inspiration to all of us kiddies that were raised at the temple. I admired you so much for your strength and compassion; for continuing to take a stand for other cancer patients even when you understood that your body was weakened. I have never known anyone to be as courageous as your were. I am forever changed because of your journey and stories. I promise to continue what you started in Project Michelle and urge others to register as life saving bone marrow donors. I am also very relieved that you are finally at rest in paradise, free from pain and sickness. Michelle, I will miss you so much but I understand that you are in a beautiful place where you belong. If you run into my beloved cousin Rodney, tell him I love him and miss him very much. =) I love you Michelle.
25 Suwanna Vatananan // Jul 26, 2009 at 2:27 am
Rest in paradise, Michelle. You have always been such an inspiration to me. Since you were the “big kid” and I was a “dek lek” at the temple. I have always looked up to you and always will for forever and a day. Your name lives forever in many hearts today and will continue to grow and prosper into the hearts of many around the world. Your courage and thoughtfulness has affected many, for the sole fact that you put others first. I will never forget your fight and your determination to help those in need. I will continue to spread your word, promote the cause, and work with ProjectMichelle so that someone might be a bone marrow match. You are an angel watching above all of us. Instead of mourning, I will celebrate the life and memory of greatness you have left with us knowing that you are in a special place free from all pain and suffering. Thank you so much, Michelle, for being my hero. I miss you so much. Hope to see you in that special place someday. I love you. -Nong Nung.
To Van and the family: My heart goes out to you guys. Keep staying strong and fighting because you know Michelle would want you to. All your love, support, and determination has exceeded its limits. Your journey alongside Michelle will also always be remembered and an inspiration in my life. Thank you for all your hard work. Prayers of happiness and strength are being sent your way =).
26 Rafael and Blanca (Spain) // Jul 26, 2009 at 2:28 am
Dear Van and Michelle´s family: we never got to know Michelle in person, though we really got to love her through all the stories of incredible love that got to us from Agnes Lee and Michelle´s Project. We cannot express with words the inmense empathy and solidarity that we feel for her beloved ones. We believe that she is know in an even superior World of Love and Light, and we are sure that some day we will meet her in There.
Please Michelle, pray for us, we still need you more than ever.
With love to all,
Blanca&Rafa
27 Anonymous25 // Jul 26, 2009 at 2:48 am
Dear Van and Michelle,
When the night has been too lonely
And the road has been too long
And you think that love is only
For the lucky and the strong
Just remember, in the winter
Far beneath the bitter snows
Lie the seed, that with the sun’s love
In the spring, becomes the rose
Rest in peace, Michelle.
28 Carla // Jul 26, 2009 at 4:20 am
Dear Van and Michelle’s Family,
I am deeply saddened for your loss, I have been following Michelle’s story and was always hopeful that she would pull through.
May you rest in peace, Michelle…knowing another angel is in Heaven makes me less fearful about leaving this life.
29 contessa // Jul 26, 2009 at 7:09 am
i did not know Michelle, but my heart , love and prayers go out to you and your family. many blessings sent to you and yours
30 Jodi // Jul 26, 2009 at 7:10 am
Dear Van and Michelle’s Family and Friends,
I am so sorry for you loss, and have been dreading reading this post for a long time. I have followed Michelle’s blog for more than a year, and though I have never met her or any of you, I thought of you constantly and was always wishing for the best. Michelle was an amazing person and an inspiration to many. My thoughts continue to be with you during this time – never forget how much you all have brought to the world and how many other lives you have changed, and saved.
-Jodi
31 Dear Van & Michelle's families // Jul 26, 2009 at 8:05 am
I am so sorry for your loss, philters
32 Jazmin Oliveras // Jul 26, 2009 at 8:55 am
I never met Michelle but she made an everlasting impression on me from watching her video at my school. Her determination should never be left unrewarded. She is in a better place now and will forever serve as a huge inspiration to me and to everyone who has ever taken the time to help her cause.
In many ways she reminded me of my mother Ofelia Mora who is currently suffering from stage four bone cancer. Its a terrible thing to see a loved one in pain. However wen they shine thru it like Michelle did it shows us that we do not need to ever complain or take our good health for granted.
My heart goes out to your family and you will be in my thoughts and prayers. I will also try my hardest to put project michelle out there and will talk about it to whoever I meet.
Reat In Peace Michelle.
33 Wenda "Jello" Lee // Jul 26, 2009 at 9:43 am
I’m soo sad to hear!! Michelle gave the fight of her life while fighting for others’ lives.. How selfless!!! RIP Michelle. We will be missing someone awesome here. Van, The Maykin Family, and good friends, I’m sending you all my prayers and wishes to help get you pass this tough time as I know she is someone who will truly be missed because of her awesome personality and strong efforts in the community.
34 Carol // Jul 26, 2009 at 10:21 am
I will miss Michelle a lot and find myself wishing that the words above were not true, that we will see Michelle smile again. So many questions of “why” swirl through my head… I can reconcile our loss only by knowing that Michelle is in a better place and celebrating all that we gained. We are so fortunate to have had her in our lives. From the beginning when I met Michelle, I knew she was special. Even the people who did not get to meet Michelle personally know this now. And of course, Michelle was so selfless while impacting thousands. Her light will never fade and I believe she is and will be smiling at all of us still.
To Van, Michelle’s family, Mabel, and friends, I pray that you find comfort, support, and peace from each other during this time. Let’s live out Michelle’s legacy of loving each other and others, so unconditionally; fighting so hard, never giving up; and laughing so much, too.
35 Joann // Jul 26, 2009 at 10:22 am
Though I never met Michelle, I followed her through this blog. My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends.
36 Roopa // Jul 26, 2009 at 10:40 am
When I read the news, an emptiness came about me. I read it over and over again..and wished it weren’t true!..I have been following Michelle’s story for over a year now and having faced AML in my own family, I know how hard this must be for the family. My deepest deepest condolences to all of you!
37 Julie // Jul 26, 2009 at 11:56 am
Dear Michelle,
I’m glad that you’ve found peace after fighting for so long and hard. My thoughts are with your family and friends as they mourn their loss and celebrate your truly remarkable life. Michelle, rest in peace.
Love,
Julie
38 Anonymous // Jul 26, 2009 at 12:50 pm
“In God’s plan, every life is long enough and every death is timely and though you and I might wish for a longer life, God knows better. While we are questioning God, those that have died are marveling at the splendors of heaven and lifting their hands in worship.”
39 Jeannie Pham // Jul 26, 2009 at 1:02 pm
I came to Berkeley in ‘07 when Michelle was diagnosed, and because of Project Michelle, I became a registered donor. The marrow drive on campus was very inspirational. I’m sorry that no one matched Michelle, but I am grateful for her and what came of everyone’s efforts because now there are thousands more registered. Thank you for your work, and once again, I send my warmest wishes to Michelle’s loved ones.
40 Anonymouse Cal Bear // Jul 26, 2009 at 2:20 pm
Through Project Michelle, thousands of new donors were registered, and all because Michelle’s story inspired others to be more generous with their own lives. Michelle, let you rest in peace knowing the huge impact you had on so many lives during your short stay with us.
41 Pim // Jul 26, 2009 at 2:27 pm
Van & Fam -
Our condolences. She was definitely a fighter and left more than just memories in our hearts. Gary and I are so sad to hear that she lost the fight to leuk but we know that she’s now at peace. I know there will be a huge turn out for her at the Wat tonight. Please let us know if you need anything, anything at all.
With all our love,
Pim & Gary
42 Erin // Jul 26, 2009 at 2:28 pm
RIP Michelle, you have touched many hearts, and we will never forget you.
43 Anonymous // Jul 26, 2009 at 3:07 pm
Michelle was so beautiful and brave, and strong. It is no surprise that she was surrounded with love. This last video is such a wonderful tribute, both heartwrenching and heartwarming. She has made a difference in the lives of everyone who knew her…
Kay
44 sih // Jul 26, 2009 at 3:24 pm
I’ve been thinking constantly of Michelle these past weeks, wondering how she’d been since her last post, and dreading any bad news. It’s so devastating to hear about her passing. I never had the pleasure of meeting her, but Michelle touched my life. She was so honest, kind, compassionate, and strong, and weathered all of the ups and downs with such determination and grace. Reading her blog reminded me to appreciate every day, to love and laugh and live up to our human potential. I wish she could have grown old with her loved ones like she so wanted to. My deepest condolences to her family and friends. I will always keep Michelle in my thoughts.
45 Rick Payne // Jul 26, 2009 at 4:30 pm
In October 08′ you said in a chat that “if we have our transplants in the same month, we’d be transplant buddies. ” I’ve thought of you as my transplant buddy ever since even though my transplant was in November. i guess that is why i would always see “hey buddy” pop up all the time in gmail chat. It was comforting to have a partner in AML crime. It was nice to talk with someone that really understood. I will miss our conversations on gmail chat such as complaining about the drugs, the hospital stays and the cancer. I wish i could have met you in person to thank you for your inspiration and help. Thank You and i’ll miss you buddy.
46 Kathy // Jul 26, 2009 at 4:32 pm
Michelle’s story encouraged me to sign up to be a bone marrow donor. I’m so sorry for your loss.
47 Anonymous // Jul 26, 2009 at 5:00 pm
Having followed Michelle’s blog for about a year now, I feel such a sense of loss with her passing. My deepest sympathy to Michelle’s family. Her story has changed my perspective on life in a very profound way. God bless.
48 Suzanne // Jul 26, 2009 at 5:13 pm
In a billy Joel song he says, “Only the Good Die Young” Tough price to pay to be good. Your spirit lives within all of us as you have connected every single one of us together Michelle. Bless your tender spirit and your pure heart. Your life has inspired so many so many to do so much more with our lives. Peace to your loved ones left behind, my thoughts are with you all. Love Suzanne
49 Jonathan // Jul 26, 2009 at 5:38 pm
R.I.P. Michelle. I am a faithful follower of your blog. You were truly a special and an inspiration for everyone.
50 Anonymous // Jul 26, 2009 at 6:49 pm
I can still remember the day that I opened the newspaper and saw that familiar face advertising the local bone marrow drive. I was lucky enough to know Michelle in high school, and I must say, I was far from shocked that she took such a devastating diagnosis and turned it into such a positive cause. That’s just who Michelle was. I was moved to register, and heckled my friends and family until they did the same, all because of Michelle.
To Van and the Maykin family: There are no words to console your tremendous loss. Your strength, determination and loyalty shine through this blog, and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I’m so very impressed to see the incredible impact that you and Michelle have had on the world.
To Michelle: Wow. I remember the days when we were pseudo-neighbors, and have thought of you often over the last few years. Thank you for the positive impacts you’ve had on my life from afar. I’ll do my best to apply your rosy outlook to my own trying situations. Rest in peace, my friend.
51 Sadie // Jul 26, 2009 at 7:32 pm
I prayed and hoped and truly believed that this post would never come. I’m sad and angry and am once again just so pissed off at cancer. I HATE IT.
Van and Family, I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your huge loss. I’m also sorry for the world’s great loss. It will be a little less bright with Michelle not in it.
I didn’t know it was possible to miss a person that I never knew but I can honestly say that I will miss Michelle so much. I will miss her posts, her sense of humor, her way of being so real and true to her emotions, the way she cared so much for everyone and everything even when she was walking through hell. If I- a person who never got the chance to officially meet Michelle other than via email – will miss her like that can imagine how much her family and friends will miss her.
I will hold you all in my hearts and will think of Michelle everyday always.
52 kc // Jul 26, 2009 at 8:19 pm
My deepest condolences to Van and the Maykin family. My heart felt so heavy when I read this post. Though I never met Michelle she inspired me in so many ways. Rest in peace Michelle. You will be missed by many.
53 Hannah // Jul 26, 2009 at 8:36 pm
I am so so so sorry…my stomach dropped when I read the title of this post. I just assumed she’d make it, never once did it cross my mind that she would pass away.
my deepest condolences to her family and friends.
may you finally have peace Michelle..
54 Annie // Jul 26, 2009 at 8:42 pm
Michelle obviously touched many lives and will continue to do so. She will always be one incredible lady – may her journey now be wonderful and wonder filled.
Love and light and thanks
Annie
55 Stacie Tamaki // Jul 26, 2009 at 8:50 pm
Oh Van,
*Hugs* I’m so sorry. On angels wings I am certain Michelle left and wherever she is now I am also certain she is no longer in pain and is whole again. Michelle was a truly beautiful person inside and out. Skin deep? No way. She was beautiful through and through. I will do my best in my future marrow drive endeavors to make all I do part of Michelle’s legacy. She will never be forgotten, her drives will help others for decades to come.
WIth love and sadness for you, her mom and all who loved her.
56 Keri // Jul 26, 2009 at 8:57 pm
I didn’t know Michelle, but I’ve been a faithful follower of her story. Her love for life and bravery in the face of the toughest odds was evident in every post she made on the blog, even if the update didn’t reveal good news. My boyfriend also passed away from cancer in his twenties, and I’ll never understand why this disease takes so many beautiful people who had so much to contribute to the world. Michelle’s impact will live on forever, in the hearts of those she loved and through the awareness she brought to bone marrow donation. From what I’ve read, she was truly an amazing and selfless person. Wishing her beloved husband, her family and friends peace and comfort.
57 Justin // Jul 26, 2009 at 9:14 pm
Like many people, I didn’t know Michelle, but read her blogs like every day. Never thought Michelle would ever be gone, but now she’s in a better place with God. RIP.
58 Jean // Jul 26, 2009 at 9:59 pm
Through my sister I was able to hear Michelle’s story & have the honor of running a marathon in her name. My hope & prayers were that she would be able to see my sister & I cross the finish line, but unfortunately she will have to watch from heaven. My thoughts & prayers are with her family & friends. What a truly special person Michelle was to have touched so many people, even those like me, who have never met her but have felt inspired and amazed by her spirit & courage. I pray that God brings peace & comfort to her husband, family & friends during this very difficult time.
59 Chris Barker // Jul 26, 2009 at 10:10 pm
I’ve been checking for updates every few days and I went numb when I dropped by tonight and saw Michelle had left us. = (
I’m so sorry to hear about Michelle’s passing. My heart goes out to Van, Michelle’s family and friends. I had such high hopes, despite the recent news from her doctor.
What an amazing girl Michelle was, sharing her story with the world and such a great attitude. Her beautiful smile was always there in every picture, even though she probably wasn’t feeling as good as she looked. From following Michelle’s story, I could tell she was someone who appreciated life, lived it to the fullest and cared about those close to her life and all her supporters. Its not fair that Michelle can’t be here to see the legacy she created and the lives who will be saved because of her.
I’m glad you are no longer suffering, but wish there was a better way.
RIP Michelle! = (
60 michelle woo // Jul 26, 2009 at 10:36 pm
My deepest condolences. Michelle inspired and will continue to inspire. Thank you for sharing her beautiful life with us.
61 Maile Lei // Jul 26, 2009 at 10:44 pm
Van. I just walked in from seeing the movie “My Sisters Keeper” While everyone was crying I was smiling because I understood that the wonderful things that the main character was able to experience in her final days was much more uplifting than the situation was upsetting.I guess you have to understand the journey to see the bright side. It has been sooo wonderful to be connected with you and Michelle even if only through email. Michelle is an inspiration to me and my daughter Maile who is now 7 months out of transplant. I just want to say “GREAT JOB MICHELLE, YOU WERE AMAZING GRACE IN ACTION” Much Love and Aloha to you, Van. Janell and Maile
62 Sharon // Jul 26, 2009 at 11:05 pm
I have been following this blog for a year now and I think about Michelle constantly. My heart sank went I read this. Even though I don’t know Michelle personally, I felt as though I lost my good friend today. My deepest condolences to Van, her family and friends. May the wonderful memories of Michelle’s love be with you and comfort you.
63 Sue // Jul 26, 2009 at 11:13 pm
Van and Family, my heart sank when I read about Michelle’s passing. Being the surviving sister of my very loved brother who also went home to the Lord in May due to AML, I fully understand what you all went through and what you mustbe feeling now. Take comfort that she no longer suffers. In this time of need, remember that many are behind you.
64 Anonymous // Jul 26, 2009 at 11:29 pm
I just wanted to let you know that your courage inspired me and your love for cal will be missed. It’s so sad to see someone like you pass away. You will be missed….just know that you have touched so many of us.
65 Chris // Jul 26, 2009 at 11:42 pm
Thanks for sharing your story, Michelle. You’ve touched my life along with many others.
66 Anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 12:09 am
Michelle, RIP, your story has touched me…and from watching your videos and reading your blogs your strength and courage is so unbelievable. u are such a strong and amazing woman. god bless you and your family and friends, rip michelle.
67 Nat Lalida S // Jul 27, 2009 at 12:33 am
Michelle, like many others, I have always admired your strength, beauty, kindness,poise, and enthusiasm for life. You are so loved by many because your presence was always so uplifting and positive. I will always remember the fun times we had in Thai dance, smiling at the cameras until our cheeks went numb, and yummy sukhi dinners. I feel so honored to have known someone so courageous like you.
And if there really is such a thing as reincarnation, I hope to meet you once again. Rest in peace, Michelle. You will be remembered forever. We love you!
68 RIP // Jul 27, 2009 at 12:36 am
May you rest peacefully, Michelle. My deepest condolences to your family and friends. You are an unbelievable fighter and will be truly missed.
69 Sumi // Jul 27, 2009 at 12:41 am
Dear Van, I found out that my grandmother passed away earlier today, and finding out about Michelle’s passing pains me just as much. She was an incredible fighter and her spirit will always live within me. RIP Michelle, and Van, much love to you as well. -Sumi
70 Anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 12:56 am
our deepest condolences from boston. with deep respect for michelle’s courage and van’s steadfastness in love and support. – gaius and yinan
71 Michelle Maykin « Dharma Folk // Jul 27, 2009 at 12:59 am
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72 Ide // Jul 27, 2009 at 1:23 am
R.I.P. Michelle. Thank you so much for showing me what true strength is. One of my goals in life is to leave this world a better place and to make a positive difference. Although you left us way too soon, know that you have already accomplished this through the lives you’ve touched and the lives you’ve saved. I love you.
Ide
73 Rauhmel Fox, CEO, WHOmentors.com, Inc. // Jul 27, 2009 at 3:38 am
I found David Harkins’ words for another friend, it seems appropriate here, too. I briefly met Michelle Maykin at one of the registry events. I came to admire her. She fought a noble battle.
There’s a lesson in how she lived her life and the effect she had on others for all of us to take to heart. His words of encouragement are:
“You can shed tears that she is gone, or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back, or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left….
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her, or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone, or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.”
74 Kyle Welch // Jul 27, 2009 at 5:08 am
Michelle will be remembered.
75 Nam // Jul 27, 2009 at 5:09 am
I am very sorry to hear about Michelle’s passing. Like many others, I was hoping so much for a magical news…
Rest in peace Michelle! Love.
76 Michelle Chang // Jul 27, 2009 at 5:27 am
I thought Michelle was going to beat this. Her ongoing strength, optimism, laughter and hope were incredible and incomparable to anyone I have ever known. Van, her family, close friends, mere acquaintances and strangers have done so much to support her and each other. This is an amazing story that will keep living forever and ever. Upon hearing the news overseas, I was overcome with endless tears of sadness and anger. But in the end, we all know that Michelle is at peace and in a better place. She has touched all of us in different ways. I will never forget her. And Van, her family and friends – we are all here for you.
77 ck // Jul 27, 2009 at 6:00 am
rest in peace michelle..i’ll always remember you.You are a brave women.My deepeset condolences to van and michelle’s family.
78 -Stacey // Jul 27, 2009 at 7:55 am
I am so very sad to see this. I have been checking this blog nearly every day, hoping to hear that Michelle was feeling better. Though I didn’t know her in person, her strength, humor, and courage reminded me just how precious life is. My condolences to Van and Michelle’s family and thank you for continuing to share her story…
79 Jay // Jul 27, 2009 at 8:32 am
I just found out what happened. I want to pass on my thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of Michelle. She truly is an inspiration and I know she will always be watching over us.
80 Andrew // Jul 27, 2009 at 8:44 am
Michelle, Rest in peace. Your journey has truly inspired me. This is sad news but I know that you are at a better place.
81 Erin Kinch // Jul 27, 2009 at 8:51 am
Thank you Michelle for inspiring me to try harder, to be something. The first drive I did as a recruiter was a Project Michelle drive and you were also the first patient I met. I will never forget your strength. Thank you for sharing your life with us, it was our pleasure.
82 Deedee // Jul 27, 2009 at 9:07 am
Michelle,
Thank you for your strength and sharing your story with all of us. Many many people are touched by you and will continue to learn from your courage and fight as hard as you did without losing hope and always with a smile.
We miss you, but we know you are in a better place. You were an angel even before you left this earth.
83 Charise // Jul 27, 2009 at 9:11 am
Thank you for shining so brightly during your brief time on earth, Michelle.
84 scott // Jul 27, 2009 at 9:37 am
rest in peace michelle, my thoughts and prayers to all your family and friends
85 Anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 9:40 am
May you rest in peace, Michelle.
86 DCV // Jul 27, 2009 at 9:44 am
Rest in peace, Michelle.
87 Prakash // Jul 27, 2009 at 10:05 am
Michelle, Van, and Family,
You are and always will be true pillars of strength and a source of inspiration for us all. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Michelle will always been in our hearts for she has truly touched many lives in more ways than one. Rest in peace.
88 anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 10:32 am
Michelle,
Thank you for sharing your story with us. It was one filled with strength, courage, inspiration, hope, and a never give up attitude. Most of us throw these words around, but I got to see you live them out through your blogs.
I am truly saddened by this news, but am also relieved that you are far away from the hospitals, the medicines, the tubes and the side effects.
May you rest in peace, and my deepest sympathies to Van, your family and your friends.
89 Vicki Yang // Jul 27, 2009 at 10:48 am
I never knew Michelle personally but her and Project Michelle’s courageous battle against blood cancer really touched me over the years. My friends made me aware of Project Michelle a few years ago and since then 3 of my friends have found matches for their cancers and 2 have had transplants. I’m deeply saddened by her passing and my heart goes out to everyone who knew her and was touched by her. Thank you to everyone who was involved for sharing Michelle and her story with the rest of the world, she will not be forgotten.
90 Sophia // Jul 27, 2009 at 11:23 am
Michelle, Van, and Family and Friends -
My deepest condolences go out you. I have never met Michelle, but heard about her story through mutual friends that went to Cal. Even though we never met, through this blog, I felt a great connection with her. I am so saddened to hear this news today, but know that she is in a better place now and is flying free. She has truly inspired me to be a better person every single day. This world has lost a true angel. Thank you to Michelle and Van for sharing her story with all of us. I will be running the NYC 1/2 Marathon with The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society’s Team in Training next month in memory of Michelle and in honor of a friend who is currently battling this disease. Michelle’s legacy will continue on and continue to change so many more lives! Rest in peace.
91 Anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 12:58 pm
dear michelle,
while i’ve never met you, i’ve heard so much about you. thank you for being such an inspiration to so many and may you rest in peace. i know your memories will certainly live on …
92 Fill // Jul 27, 2009 at 1:10 pm
toughest girl i never knew, bar none. followed this blog since the beginning and was hoping to meet her once she beat it. humbled to know ya, M.
93 Phil // Jul 27, 2009 at 1:16 pm
To the Project Michelle Family,
As a long time follower of this site, I drew inspiration from Michelle’s courage. Her work helping others with leukemia and optimism facing her toughest fight is a testament to the fact that one person can make a difference. Rest in peace, Michelle!
94 Brady Kroupa // Jul 27, 2009 at 1:23 pm
Dear friends and family of Michelle,
my thoughts and love are with you during this difficult time. Michelle inspired me and her courage and grace will never be forgotten. More than ever I’m reminded to cherish our loved ones, and to continue to do all that we can to find a cure for leukemia.
95 Laurie // Jul 27, 2009 at 1:44 pm
Deepest condolences to Michelle’s loving family and close friends. Michelle was an inspiration to so many, and she touched so many lives. I know she made the world a brighter, more lovely place, and the world truly lost one of its best. My thoughts are with you Michelle, as well as for those who will miss you so dearly.
96 Molasses Minds // Jul 27, 2009 at 1:56 pm
The stars at night are brighter because there is a new angel up there watching over us now. Having lost my baby sister to AML 12 years ago, progress in curing this disease has been incredibly important to me. Like Michelle, my sister was young and Asian. She was only 24. So, I checked Michelle’s blog a few times a day hoping and praying for a miracle. Michelle’s strength, courage, and grace served as sources of inspiration for me and many others. Van, Maykin Family, Mabel, and other close friends of Michelle, I wish there was something I can write to help during this difficult time. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that she is in peace and she will always be in our hearts.
Rest in Peace Michelle.
97 Anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 2:59 pm
I have been following this website & I hoped never to see these words. I suddenly lost a 29 year old friend this year due to pregnancy complications this year and it was painful so I am extremely happy to have seen that Michele was able to have her family & friends by her side these past few years. She will smile down upon you from heaven and I hope that knowing that she is at peace will help you in this difficult time. My love and prayers are with you.
98 Long time follower // Jul 27, 2009 at 3:19 pm
It has been a humbling experience knowing how you and your loved ones faced the hardships with such courage and dignity. I’ve always been so amazed by your strength and ability to see the brighter side of things and channel the energy to a positive direction. You?ve taught us to think about life in a new perspective when things aren?t going so well. I find myself thinking about trivial things and realizing there are so many more important things to think about or do in life. You?ve also taught us to really treasure our time with friends and family and so much more. For that, I am truly grateful.
You are such an inspiration to all of us out here.
Rest in Peace Michelle.
-Fremont resident.
99 K // Jul 27, 2009 at 3:24 pm
This poem always brings me comfort. Michelle, thank you for being an inspiration. May you rest in peace.
Wild Geese by Mary Oliver
You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert repenting. You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves. Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine. Meanwhile the world goes on. Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain are moving across the landscapes, over the prairies and the deep trees, the mountains and the rivers. Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air, are heading home again. Whoever you are, no matter how lonely, the world offers itself to your imagination, calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting — over and over announcing your place in the family of things.
100 Cindy Chew // Jul 27, 2009 at 4:26 pm
Michelle…I remember your smile the most.
101 Christina // Jul 27, 2009 at 4:51 pm
Van, Mabel, Maykin Family: I’m so sorry for your loss – the world is a dimmer place without Michelle here, but her smile, inspiration, and legacy will live on forever. She’s touched more people and accomplished more in her lifetime than some people will ever do in theirs. I hope all the love everyone has for Michelle and all the memories will bring you peace and comfort during these difficult times.
Michelle: I wish I had gotten the chance to know you better. Your strength and grace throughout your fight was so inspiring. You’ve taught me to look at life with a different and better perspective. You will be missed but always remembered. Rest in peace.
102 Anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 4:56 pm
I’m so sorry to hear that our world has lost such a wonderful person and spirit. I’ve been a faithful follower of Michelle’s blog for years and I’ve never come across someone who I can honestly say that I’ll probably remember forever when I’ve never met them…except for Michelle. I pray that her loved ones (Van, Mabel, and Michelle’s family) are all finding peace in your hearts.
103 Carly // Jul 27, 2009 at 5:23 pm
I didn’t know Michelle personally, but I am a faithful blog follower. To say the least, it was difficult to read about Michelle’s passing. I wanted to extend my thoughts and prayers to Michelle’s family and loved ones. Michelle is such an inspiration…a beautiful soul that connected with so many of us. Rest in peace.
104 Anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 9:16 pm
I have been following Michelle’s blog for a long time and I feel as though I’ve lost a close friend. It feels so personal even though I never met her in person. My thoughts and prayers are with Michelle’s loved ones. Michelle – you are truly an inspiration to all of us. I will never forget all that I have learned through you. I pray that you rest in peace.
105 Jennifer // Jul 27, 2009 at 10:27 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. Michelle remains an inspiration for us all.
106 Anonymous // Jul 27, 2009 at 11:39 pm
Dear Van and family of Michelle,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I have been following this blog for some time now and every time I read an update it really inspired me. Michelle’s story was one of courage, strength and hope. She is lucky to have such a great family by her side. My cousin recently has been diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. The news is hard to stomach and I hope to draw from Michelle and your family’s strength to go through this tough time. Michelle is finally at peace and I am glad she will no longer feel the suffering. May her memory live on forever. Thank you for her amazing story.
107 Shannen // Jul 28, 2009 at 7:26 am
To family and friends of Michelle (including Marshawn!),
I am a friend of Ami and Veeral. I never met Michelle (just saw her at Ami’s wedding). I’ve been reading the blog over time. Even though I never met her, she inspired me and I felt connected to her. My most positive thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Michelle, thank you for continuing to fight and for inspiring me and others. I pray that you are now in at peace. Thank you!
108 Lisa Zimmerman // Jul 28, 2009 at 3:36 pm
RIP Michelle. My thoughts and prayers go out to Van and Michelle’s family. Words can’t describe how sorry I am…
109 Erica // Jul 28, 2009 at 6:32 pm
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I have been rooting for Michelle every since I heard about her cancer. Prayers to her friends and family. God bless you all.
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111 Anonymous // Jul 28, 2009 at 9:59 pm
Rest in peace Michelle.
112 Mark // Jul 29, 2009 at 3:47 am
I am very sorry to hear this news. Rest in peace Michelle; you fought a great fight.
113 Jane // Jul 29, 2009 at 5:03 am
I’m so very sorry for your loss
The beautiful montage of photos looked like you had a beautiful weekend with Michelle and shared some lovely memories
114 Nui // Jul 29, 2009 at 2:00 pm
I love you, Michelle.
115 Nui // Jul 29, 2009 at 2:01 pm
We all Love you, Michelle.
116 Anonymous // Jul 29, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Michelle, you taught us how to live, you gave us the gift of hope, and you did it all as a selfless human being. Now your life has transcended from this world making you an even greater force that continues to watch over us.
117 Susan // Jul 29, 2009 at 6:14 pm
Apologies for the lateness of this post, but my thoughts are with you and all who loved Michelle. Her strength was incredible, and her influence on those who knew her is clear.
RIP, Michelle.
118 Anonymous // Jul 29, 2009 at 9:39 pm
I AM SO SORRY ABOUT HER LOSS…MY PRAYERS ARE WITH HER AND HER FAMILY..I FEEL LIKE I KNOW HER BY READING HER BIO, AND WHAT SHE DID TO HELP OTHERS…SHE IS A REMARKABLE PERSON, AND BEAUTIFUL PERSON INSIDE AND OUT …REST IN PEACE ANGEL .
119 Miyu Kataoka // Jul 30, 2009 at 1:53 pm
I had the honor of writing an article on Michelle a few months ago. I am truly sorry for your loss. God bless.
120 Joana Ramos // Jul 30, 2009 at 10:24 pm
Dear Van and family,
Please accept my condolences on Michelle’s passing. She was indeed a person who was a light to the world, and she’ll always be remembered. You and Michelle and all your loved ones have made a tremendous contribution to helping to equalize the chances for all patients with these deadly diseases. Although we never met in person, I can assure you that your efforts and willingness to share with me and so many others,have made a real difference.
Best regards,
Joana
121 Abby // Jul 31, 2009 at 7:11 pm
I have been offline this whole week and one of the first things I did tonight was to check the blog for any news on how Michelle was doing. I am so sad to hear the news of Michelle’s passing. I stumbled on her blog some time ago and would check often for updates on how she was doing. This is so heart breaking. My thoughts and prayers are with all of her family and friends and those whom she has touched with her story and courage.
122 Marisa // Aug 1, 2009 at 12:42 am
I do not know Michelle personally but am also, amongst others, a loyal follower of this blog. As a result of reading her blog, I became much more knowledgable of this deadly disease and became a registered donor. I could not stop thinking about Michelle even as I took my annual vacation to Japan, and on July 19 at the Meiji Shrine, wrote out an ema tablet praying that she find peace. Just like the impact she left on me, it is clear from all other comments how monumentally she has impacted the lives of thousands of people from all over the world. For as long as I live, I will never forget Michelle Maykin for the warrior-like personality she had in fighting this disease – it is to me the greatest tenacity I have ever witnessed in a person. I hate the fact that sometimes it takes the struggles and even death of another person, including a person one may not know, to change perception in your own life and I am still wrapping my head around why that is so. My most heartfelt condolences to Van and Michelle’s family and friends.
123 Vinh Tong // Aug 2, 2009 at 8:49 pm
It was thanks to Michelle that I signed up to be a registered bone marrow donor. I have been following her blog for a long time now and I am saddened by her passing. My condolences to Van, her family, and all her friends.
124 Anonymous // Aug 5, 2009 at 7:38 pm
I am a Leukemia survivor and all I need to say is Michelle is an inspiration. She will never be forgotten. Everyone reading this, please sign up for the bone marrow registry. Save a life!
125 Jenny // Aug 10, 2009 at 5:51 pm
The world lost a beautiful soul, but her presence and impact will live on.. My thoughts are with you Van, Maykin family & Mabel.
126 kaybee // Sep 13, 2009 at 1:14 pm
I found this blog today ~ my husband had his last chemo for non-hodgkins (large b cell) 9/1/09. My best friend/sister died this summer in the middle of this. Michelle is truly loved and will not be forgotten. This tribute to her life is helping me cope this morning. Thank you.
127 Bari // Oct 23, 2009 at 1:54 am
I was a avid follower of Michelles journey from when I saw her projectmichelle site on stickam a few years ago. Michelle, Van, Mabel, and I did exchange emails from time to time. Unfortunately, I didnt know of Michelle’s passing until this very moment, and I am so sad. When ever I would write to Michelle either through email or facebook, even with her condition, she would always take the time to write back, and ask me about my nephew that is now dealing with a rare type of leukemia. I told Michelle that when she got better she and Van needed to honeymoon in Hawaii and I would be there to give her a great big hug. Unfortunately I will never get a chance to receive my hug from her. Michelle’s spirit was so beautiful and even though I never got to meet her in person, she was my hero. She was a fighter. Her strength and faith and unconditional kindness was something thing that is so rare in a person. Something we all strive for.
My deepest sympathies go to the family and friends that knew her best… esp to Van and Mabel.
Much Love Michelle. We miss you so much, but we take great comfort that you are no longer in pain anymore. Thanks for inspiring so many and I will never forget you.
Much Aloha, Bari
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